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Landing
Good Jobs After 50 Successful Five O'Clock Clubbers Share Their Stories -by David Madison, Ph.D.
"Beauty and
youth are no match for age and stealth." T-shirt slogan in the 1990s
Much has been made of the
youth-oriented culture of our time, and not a few mass circulation
magazines have bemoaned the "plight" of the older worker. The Five O'Clock
Club has welcomed many "over-50" job seekers, and we have suspected that
the situation is not as grim as it's made out to be. Some found being over
50 more of a handicap than others, but our graduates include older workers
with great attitude who positioned themselves to be winners and came out
on top. Here are a few examples.
Ed Mills
Remaining Competitive in the Workplace
"On
interviews, I always carried with me some evidence of being physically
active," Ed remarked. Sometimes it was his tennis equipment—he plays in
the state championships for seniors. On the interview for his current job,
when the conversation came to "outside interests," he pulled from his
briefcase a picture of himself hiking at 14,000 feet on California's Mt.
Whitney.
Ed acknowledges, however, that, no matter how much he
has been able to make the point that he is a high energy person, age
discrimination was probably a factor in his job searches.
"Some
opportunities went away, and I didn't quite know why." But he also is
confident that being over 50 actually worked in his favor in landing the
position with 13/WNET, because of the amount and breadth of experience he
had to offer: "15 years ago I would not have been as attractive a
candidate."
The key, Ed admits, was correct positioning, one of
the fundamentals of Five O'Clock Club methodology, especially since he was
attempting to move from the not-for-profit world. With the help of his
counselor and small group, Ed built a rĖsumĖ that drew attention to his
accomplishments and to his strengths on the technical side of direct
marketing. With a high-impact, well-positioned rĖsumĖ, the age factor
didn't get as much attention as it might have. And he attended sessions at
the Club to maintain momentum.
Ed was happy to land at 13/WNET,
which, although a non-for-profit, "is a big station and it's a business in
competition with for-profit companies. My position uses the full range of
my abilities; it's challenging and it's hard work and it's
good."
In the months preceding his new position with 13/WNET, Ed
was busy with several consulting assignments that helped him hone his
computer skills—a vital factor in remaining competitive with younger
workers.
Ed's formula for keeping up-to-date also includes being
active in professional associations, where he is often invited to be a
guest speaker and last year he served as Treasurer for his 40th-year
college class reunion.
If retirement is taken
to mean slowing down or cutting back, that doesn't seem to be part of Ed's
agenda. "They tell me at â13' that I have to stay in this job at least 10
years. I suppose that looking 15 years out, I might not work full-time. I
might do some consulting, I might travel and play some national level
competition in tennis."
Ed attended the Main
Branch of the Club in Manhattan.
Barbara Plasker
Got Her Doctorate at Age
56
"I went back
to graduate school at age 48, and got my doctorate in adult education at
56." If Barbara was intimidated by the thought of age discrimination, she
didn't let it stop her. She strategized how to get into a new field, and
devoted a lot of thought to the issue of positioning. "The challenge for
me is to find the right fit, and get potential employers to see what I can
do, to see my potential. I don't see age as a factor—I may be in denial,
but I tend not to look at it in that way, although that does creep into my
fears as I go through the process." Barbara found the Five O'Clock Club
assessment exercises especially helpful in defining her goals and
positioning herself to get into training and development.
Even
before finding The Five O'Clock Club, Barbara knew that getting experience
that she lacked would help her to move ahead. While in a counseling role
at a university, she volunteered for staff development and faculty
training projects. "These efforts were outside the purview of my job, but
gave me experience towards my long-range goal."
Barbara feels
that it also helps to position herself as a person with energy—age
discrimination, after all, may be largely a fear about people over 50
keeping up. When applying for a job that would require her to learn
educational software and work with a different population, "I told the
president of the company that I had the energy and ambition of a 27-year
old." She positioned her herself so well in fact—and with such
enthusiasm—that she was offered $12,000 more than the job was advertised
for. "The Five O'Clock Club methodology helped me negotiate the job first
and then the salary."
Barbara says that she can't recall a time
when she actually felt that age discrimination has held her back, but she
notes that it can be hard to read—is it there or not? She recalls one
interview in which she might have been at a disadvantage simply because of
the youth of the interviewer, who was a recent MBA grad. "He was a
delightful young man, but I don't think he knew what he was doing. He
asked me lots of questions, but I don't know that he heard the
answers."
Barbara is not necessarily focused on retirement. "I
love what I do. I want to continue doing it. I'm the breadwinner in my
family. I'd like to work without the pressure of having to do it. In 10 or
15 years, I'd like to feel like I'm making a contribution to the world by
using my gifts and talents—and I'm looking forward to enjoying my children
and grandchildren."
Barbara attended the
Manhattan Central branch.
Jack Feldesman
Uses E-mail List-Serves to
Keep Up
"Do you
have children in college?" was the interview question that made Jack
suspect that age might be an issue. He is sure, however, that salary was
the larger concern in his case. "Of all the interviews I had, at least
90-95% were for positions that paid less than I had been earning." Jack
knew that being in a job for over 20 years—and advancing steadily—had put
him in this position.
Jack ended up in a job very similar to the
one he left, so adopting The Five O'Clock Club's "consultant mentality"
during the interview process was appropriate. He knew the issues and
problems he would be facing, and was able to position himself effectively.
"The match couldn't have been closer."
One of the concerns about
a candidate who has been at a job for 20 years may be adaptability more
than age. Is the person simply too set in his ways or even out of touch?
Jack makes full use of Internet resources to make sure that he is not
growing stale. "I'm a member of a number of professional societies,
including the American Society of Association Executives. They have a
computerized list serve in a number of functional areas of the non-profit
world. I belong to their finance and administration list serve. You get on
line and see e-mails from hundreds of other people with similar interests,
with questions on how to do this or that. It's incredible the amount of
knowledge and information you can pick up. Your e-mail inquiry goes out on
the list serve to over 1000 people and you get responses in a matter of
minutes. This is a great form of continuing education."
Jack
feels that getting the right kind of help in job search is important.
Attending Club meetings gave him a boost: "This kept the juices flowing.
You meet with people weekly, you're told what to do, what not to do. Job
hunting can be very lonely. There were fresh ideas. I went though an
outplacement service that, frankly, did not help. If they had done as much
as the Five O'Clock Club did, I would have landed sooner."
At the mention of retirement, Jack speaks of keeping busy. "I'd
like to be doing something interesting 10 or 15 years from now. I'm going
to be working for a long time. I haven't had a career peak
yet."
Jack
attended a Maryland branch of the Club.
Bill Kovacs
Took Over at a Very Senior
Level
Looking for a
job over 50 "is absolutely more difficult," according to Bill Kovacs,
Director and Vice President, Senior Counsel and Chief Compliance Officer
for a major financial institution. "It's harder, but it's do-able." He is
enthusiastic about The Five O'Clock Club. "The fundamental product is very
solid—it's much better, far more useful than my outplacement package: It
went beyond keeping track of how many letters you sent. At my outplacement
service, the attitude was to ignore the over-50 issue. But my Club
counselor, Jim Speigler said, âYes, it's true, if you're over 50, you've
got a problem. Now let's get on with it.'"
As an attorney who
chooses words carefully, Bill is reluctant to use the word discrimination.
The problem, he suggests, is prejudice, how people at age 40, 50 or 60 are
perceived. "If you're over 50, people assume you're a health risk, have an
ego, are set in your ways, and are probably not up to date."
So
he suggests that facing these issues head-on is crucial. "If you get a
phone call from a recruiter and don't address these fears, you don't get a
second phone call."
Add competition to prejudice and the job
search becomes especially difficult. "There are 50 qualified lawyers
chasing after every good job." Being extremely proactive in the market,
however, paid off. Bill admits that he had failed to cultivate an
extensive network of contacts in his field, which probably made his job
search more difficult. But he adopted networking intensively. Making full
use of contact management software, "...every three months I'd go through
my list of more than 400 contacts—I'd make the phone calls or send the
letters." This eventually paid off.
And his age worked in his
favor. "A 63-year-old lawyer was retiring early. The company wanted a
person with more than 20 years' experience. They wanted someone who could
come in immediately and do this job with no training—just show up and take
over at a very senior level."
For Bill, keeping up at his level
means intensive reading—and amassing information. He admits that reading
SEC rule releases is not especially fun, but he brings home many hours
worth of reading per week. "I read with discipline, taking notes. I have a
personal reference library, currently 36 file drawers of hard copy." He
recently acquired a scanner to help store, manage and access his growing
library. To keep up in today's world, he advises, "you've got to be a
computer junkie."
Despite the hours that he must spend on
diligent reading, Bill loves what he does. "I enjoy working. Retirement
doesn't appeal to me." But he would like to see more balance in the way
the American workforce operates. "Today, if you're going to be highly
compensated, you've got to work 60 to 90 hours per week, 49 to 50 weeks a
year. I would love to be able to do two-thirds of the work I do, and have
one-third more time for myself—but not retire."
Bill attended the
Chicago branch of the Club.
Ida Lowe
From Academia to
Corporate—After 25 Years
"I don't
think if I'd come in with white hair it would have made any difference,"
Ida claims. "I don't think I encountered age discrimination. I find that
the baby boomer generation has a different attitude toward age. When my
mother was 50, she felt old. I don't feel old, and the people around me
don't feel or act old." She recalls the remark of Gloria Steinham to
someone who said to her, "You don't look fifty:" "This is what 50 looks
like."
Ida was much more concerned about her attempt to move from
academia to the corporate world—after almost 25 years at a college. She
accomplished the leap to the for-profit world because she positioned
herself well, stressing her management skills especially. "I did the Seven
Stories exercise before writing my rĖsumĖ; it helped me get focused. I had
a lot of experience that was all over the place. I recommend the Five
O'Clock Club to everyone I can. It was very good for me because I'd never
looked for a job, and I found a job within a month."
Being in a
high tech field, Ida is not about to let her technical skills slip, and
her daily routine includes the homework required to remain current. Her
long commute gives her a lot of time to read trade literature, but she
also attends conferences, takes classes and subscribes to several Internet
discussion lists.
Ida doesn't believe her career has peaked, and
looks forward to many more years on the job. "I can't imagine the idea of
retiring. Even if I won the lottery, I wouldn't want to give up working. I
find it very satisfying and fulfilling. I couldn't retire and pamper
myself." But her vision of the future does allow for a more relaxed pace:
"At 70 I would like to work part-time on project management. When I was in
academia, I took consulting jobs for the United Nations, and had the
opportunity to go to Africa. I wouldn't mind taking it easier—but I don't
want to stop working."
Ida attended the main
branch of The Five O'Clock Club in
Manhattan.
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